Lee Stobby,
On May 5th 2017 without my consent you exposed me to a potentially deadly disease, according to what you told me on May 7th 2017 just as we were about to hook up again. Ever since then my life has never been the same.On Cinco De Mayo 2017, you invited me to join you at Flaming Saddles to watch Rupaul’s Drag Race, as you did every couple of weeks. Sometimes your friend Shep and his husband came, that night it was just us. You were ranting about work stuff. You were complaining that YOUR OLD BOSS Jewerl, who you claimed had a crush on you and who was friends with MY OLD BOSS Nick, told you that you shouldn’t wear hats of your projects as people didn’t take you seriously. You were brutal about discussing him and insisted on ordering neon/jellow shots from a shot boy.
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You were also complaining that Guymon, the manager of MY (OTHER) OLD BOSS Louis (who you know), had continually offered you a job, as you were insulted by the requirement/suggestion that you team up with another manager. You thought it was beneath you to work with him.
You started buying me drinks though I was buying my own. I found this odd and reasoned with you that I couldn’t drink much as after having like two, due to my sickness, I would feel terrible the next day.
You wanted to keep talking so I suggested we get ice cream as with my illnesses even with just a couple of drinks I would have a big hangover the next day. You insisted on going to another bar so we went to Bar Ten. We spoke with a friend of yours who is the VP or something for a famous sitcom star’s (Sheldon) production company. You made some crude comments about how attracted you were to the bartender, then danced close to me at one point which I found surprising but didn’t think too much about.
When we left, I was going to wait for your Uber to arrive before I walked home. You made a pass at me out of nowhere and told me that you had had a crush on me for years, since we had met.
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I had been having a very random and unlucky in love spring and really just wanted to date someone things could work with, so even though I wasn’t very physically attracted to or sexually compatible with you I had always admired your confidence and work ethic, and remembered how you helped me with my dog.
I remember stopping in awe in the wake of your kiss and thinking to myself “At least I know him. At least he’s safe”. In hindsight, I could not have been more wrong about either thought.
You spent the night. We didn’t have anal sex but there was certainly potential blood exposure in that I had gum disease with bleeding gums. Your razor-sharp teeth in your tiny mouth left marks on my oversized penis when you performed oral sex on me three times. You also digitally penetrated me, and I have a history of bleeding fissures.
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When we showered together (twice) you kept remarking how you were glad I was “hot” again. I reminded you I had unintentionally lost weight due to pancreatitis. In the shower you kept saying “we’re hot”, as you had recently lost weight too. As I’m noticeably taller than you I couldn’t help but notice the water moving your hair and your giant bald spot as you said this.
I’m making everything graphic and clear even if it’s uncomfortable because when you unleashed your real-estate lawyer friend on me he made it clear that I couldn’t be anonymous and embarrass you by talking about your crimes.
He said I would have to either give my name or we would both be anonymous. I am choosing to share every detail under my name. I don’t mind being embarrassed if it stops you from doing this to other people.
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